Calendar Routines at Home

funG has loved the morning calendar routines since day one of her Preschool (for 3 year olds) experience.  In fact, the morning routines are about the only part of her school day she’ll tell me about in detail.  Because she goes to school 2/3 days a week, we were finding a need for a way for her to keep track of her days home and in school. Or maybe I was just wanting a break from being asked, “Is today a school day, or no?”

Last year, I fell in love with this week-long dry erase calendar the moment I saw it hanging on my friend’s Kindergarten door.  She used it to post the week’s events for the families to see.  At the time, I thought, “That would be a great way to let G know what she was doing each day (which babysitter’s house, a day off for mom, a party).  Then I told myself, “I can make one myself and laminate it, no need to buy one.”  Many months later, I broke down and bought it.  Of course I never got a chance to make one!  It is really one of the best routines we have in the house because it is really useful!

Pros:

  1. Penmanship practice-lots of chances to write those pesky 2’s!
  2. Shared writing-sharing the pen to let G do what she can and what she needs some practice on independently while I write the really hard stuff (or the stuff that she’s “too tired” (lazy?) to write.
  3. Encoding-wonderful opportunities to connect sounds to letters.
  4. She now understands the cyclical concept of a week a bit better than when she would just do the sing-song about the days of the week that she learned in school.
  5. She can find the week that she’s up to on a calendar.  She also refers to the calendar if she needs help “spelling a number”.
  6. She can synthesize what she knows about the “real” calendar, the songs the knows about months and days, and the week long calendar to figure out when a month ends and a new one begins.
  7. It’s creative!  G makes up all sorts of days for us to spend together.  At first I was nervous that she’d write activities that would be impossible to do.  Instead she writes pretty general ideas-“fun”, “paint” and the newly invented “dot day” where you can do just about anything that includes a dot of some kind.
  8. The best perk is that I don’t have to remind her about what’s happening and when (which used to be a constant job because she can be a pretty stubborn kid).

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Implications for parents and teachers-

  • If you have a “calendar” or “morning” routine, make sure that you are NOT the one doing the work for the children.
  • Choose a routine that is meaningful, helpful and developmentally appropriate.
  • If the routine becomes a drag, drop it.
  • Correct mistakes kids make if the mistake actually matters or if the correction will help the child grow as a learner in the future.  For example, I did not correct G when she wrote “parc” for park.  As long as she knows what it says, it serves the purpose of why we do this routine. Also, it’s wonderful that she is writing ending sounds on words, so for that reason, the c stays.  Now, if she wrote school on the wrong day, I would correct her because it would matter a great deal if we showed up for school on the wrong day.
  • Use a calendar the REAL way it’s used.  We don’t write the date on a calendar day-by-day, why do it like this in school?  Real calendars don’t have patterned shapes on the dates either.  It has numbers and events.  Keep it simple if you want the kids to learn about why and when the tool of a calendar is useful.

Remember teachers, as this happens, YOUR jobs are on the line. Think about it.

I really hope that a LOT changes before Big G hits 3rd grade. After proctoring last year’s math exam to 5th graders, I’ve seen enough. Those kids had come so far. I taught them in first grade. I remember how hard they worked to learn how to read and speak English well. I saw how well they overcame so many of the struggles they once had while taking the test. Did this evidence show up in their scores? Not the last time that I checked. I saw the look of defeat on their faces. They worked SO hard and just couldn’t understand why, in their 3rd year of taking state exams, the test becomes harder each time. They knew full well that had done everything they were asked to do up until this point and looked so confused about why they were having such difficulty. All this stress for such in unimportant outcome is so unnecessary. There is NO good information that comes from the data that teachers receive. The scores DO NOT inform their teaching. Their scores DO NOT help them meaningfully group students, understand fully what their struggles are (or even what they are good at). It only tells us about how well they take a test and how likely they are to receive a similar score the next year. And that’s if the test doesn’t change. You may think by what I post that I am against children taking exams. I am not. I am against the weight given to these particular exams. I am against certain administrators in certain schools who tell their teachers to “test prep and then test prep some more” all year long. I was lucky to work in a school community where this was not the case. Even when the best schools try to make the most out of this imposition of testing, the trickle down of anxiety and the development of negative self-worth happens despite a school’s best efforts to protect students from it. I just can’t see any positive benefits to any of it.

Learning Everyday

Learning Everyday

In our family, we learn new stuff all of the time. We talk about it, sing about it, and write about it in an effort to be aware that we grow better every day, especially when the lessons learned are organic and unintentional. Those are the best times! This blog is hopefully just the beginning of:
(1) an effort to document how fun growing and learning can be;
(2) the documentation of the development of my two rock stars, named on this blog as “Big G” and “little g”; and,
(3) to share my thoughts and ideas (admittedly, mostly opinionated) as a mommy-teacher to help your kids be super smart too!